You Inspired Me
As I cruise around the Internet reading my regular blogs and discovering new ones, the content of other bloggers often gives me ideas for TMI Tuesday questions. A few of you did that for me this week. I encourage you to click on the links and read the blog posts that prompted a specific question.
1. List ONE word to describe your last sexual encounter.
2. Can you recall your worst sexual experience? Why was it so awful? Did you do anything at the time to try to make it better?
ANS: I thought long and hard (hey, get your mind out of the gutter), I can't think of any really traumatically bad times. There was one time in college I was went to visit a college friend at her home for break or something. She had to work late one night so her friends offered to keep me company and show me around. As the evening wound up, one of the males drove me home to the friend's house. He came in and we ended up having sex. I didn't really have an interest in him, I thought he was kind of dumb but he had a good body. I wasn't in to him, he was just looking to get off. I remember thinking, "Hurry it up buddy." I wanted him to get off. Boring lay. I remember hoping my college friend didn't find out. She never did. Well not at least for five years after the fact, since then we've lost touch.
3. Do you fuck outside the box?
Give an example.
ANS: Yup, I do. See answer #2 that guy was a blond; I am generally not attracted to blonds. Also, I like tall people my ex-bf was my exact height. Too, I like to have sex anywhere the mood hits me so I have probably had just as much sex NOT in a bed as I have had in a bed or bedroom.
4. Do you blend BDSM in to your relationship? If yes, just in the bedroom or in other areas of your life? Explain.
ANS: Why yes, I do. I get spanked regularly. I like to be tied up. KinkyGent and I have what I'll describe as a "Taken in Hand" or male-led relationship but it is not about "play" it is who we are comfortable being all the time. So that is the Dominance & submission aspect. Prior to KG I was in a Dom/sub relationship, with a contract and all. That relationship with a man who I would engage in various BDSM encounters was all about power exchange but was not a romantic relationship. It was a learning experience and a psychological thrill.
5. Does the thought of your partner/significant other having sex with another person turn you on? Would you want to watch the act? Would you like to join in?
ANS: I want to see another man suck KinkyGent's cock. Hell yes! that would turn me on. But I just want to watch. I am a voyeur.
Bonus: Fill in the blanks.
ANS: I like it RUBBED on the outside and CREAMY in the middle.
See who else play TMI Tuesday: